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ISSUE #013 • WEEK OF MAY 26, 2026 • ~ 3 MIN READ
WICKED INFORMED
For the woman who's spiritual AND has receipts.
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INSIDE THIS WEEK'S EDITION:
❤️🔥WHAT YOUR BODY IS TRYING TO TELL YOU 🗳️THIS IS POLITICAL (AND PERSONAL) 🧘♀️ONE THING TO RELEASE THIS WEEK 🧹THE WOO HAS RECEIPTS 🌙COSMIC CORNER
Happy Tuesday, Reader!
Joy isn't a luxury item. It's not a reward for finishing your to-do list, which, let's be honest, never actually ends. This week we're talking about seeking joy on purpose, even when you're behind, even when you're burned out, even when your inner critic is writing you a strongly-worded memo about productivity. Especially then. Let's dive in👇
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❤️🔥WHAT YOUR BODY IS TRYING TO TELL YOU
Joy is a Nervous System Event
When you're burned out, joy can feel frivolous, but your body knows it's medicine. Research shows that positive emotions like joy and awe actually lower cortisol and activate the parasympathetic nervous system, the same system you're desperately trying to get back online. Your body isn't waiting for you to earn a good time; it's literally designed to heal through pleasure, laughter, and delight. The most radical thing you can do for your nervous system right now isn't another supplement. It's doing something that makes you genuinely, stupidly happy.
When in doubt, watch some comedy videos on YouTube to help your nervous system start to relax.
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🗳️THIS IS POLITICAL (AND PERSONAL)
The Productivity Myth is Exhausting Women on Purpose
I know, that's a bold statement, but let's look at it. The idea that joy has to be "earned" through productivity didn't come from nowhere; it was baked into economic systems that needed women's labor and compliance, not their flourishing. The US has no federal right to paid leisure, no cultural infrastructure that protects rest or play, and a hustle culture that has convinced us that being busy is a personality trait. Women, and especially women of color, have been socialized to shrink their pleasure to make room for everyone else's comfort. You reclaiming joy, unapologetically, on a Tuesday, is a quiet act of resistance.
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🪤THE TRAP
Waiting until everything is handled before you let yourself feel good.
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💪THE MOVE
Schedule one joyful, completely useless thing this week. Defend it like a board meeting.
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🧘♀️ONE THING TO RELEASE THIS WEEK
Release the Permission Slip Fantasy
If you're waiting for someone to tell you it's okay to enjoy your life, and that person is you. Joy doesn't require a clean inbox, a finished project, or a body that looks a certain way. It just requires you to stop postponing it. The to-do list will still be there; the moment won't. Give yourself the green light already.
BTW, EVERY BODY IS A "BEACH BODY" IF YOU TAKE IT TO THE BEACH.
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🪄THE WOO HAS RECEIPTS
The Science of Savoring (Yep, it's a real thing!)
Psychologist Fred Bryant has spent decades studying "savoring," the practice of intentionally noticing and amplifying positive experiences, and found it significantly increases wellbeing and reduces depressive symptoms. There's a lot of toxic positivity out there, but this isn't that. It's actually a trainable skill that literally rewires how your brain registers pleasure over time. You don't need a retreat or a rebrand to access it. You just need 30 seconds to actually notice that your coffee is good, the light is pretty, and you made it through another week. Your brain will do the rest.
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🌙COSMIC CORNER
Mercury in Cancer Wants You To Tune In
Mercury went into Cancer June 1st and will hang out there until August (thanks in large part to our upcoming round of Mercury Retrograde June 29-July 23). Cancer is intuitive, emotional, and nostalgic, but because we refuse the idea that emotional = bad, we're leaning into this watery, protective, healing sign. It's also time to listen to that little voice in the back of your head or the stirring in your gut. Your intuition is stronger than your head sometimes!
Practice self-care, trust your instincts, and ride the waves of emotions that come up this month. 🦀
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